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How to Find Your True Love

True love is something which we can spend our whole lives searching for. What is hard to understand, is how do we actually find it. Better yet, what are the keys on how to find your true love? Well, the big thing to think about is, true love is different from person to person. Love is a crazy emotion in which no matter what we do, we are subject to love’s actions. The mind and the heart are something much different, the truth is, when you find true love, you not only have found it in your heart, but also in your mind. That is how you find it.

Finding Love

Like I said, true love is something that no matter what we do, it will be different for each and every person. How to find true love is crazy, and most definitely we do things which sometimes don’t seem rational. But, starting with your heart, you will have this feeling of almost being invincible. Like you can literally do anything (which without a doubt you can do anything and everything you set your mind to) but when you have your heart in the game as well; you are completely in control of what you are doing in the future and today.

How do you know its Love?

Again, love for me is going to be different than it is for you. True love on the other hand, is definitely a two way street. You have to be in it to win it with your partner as well. When you are going into a relationship, especially where you love the other more than anything in this world, you have to understand what you are doing together. Everything will fall into place, without the effort or burden. You see, love is about playing through all of your emotions, but it not being hard. When you truly love someone, you can literally fall in love the first time you meet them, or talk to them in-depth. First hand, I know how easy it is to fall head over heels in love, but not even being able to think fast enough to question it. But why would I question it?

Does Time Matter in Love?

Whats interesting is that even having the experience of falling in love like I have so quickly, it is extremely difficult to wrap my head around it. True love will never be something we will understand, a feeling inside you which you can never explain, not even to the person you love. But the big thing you can always do is to never be afraid of it, in the world today there has been quite a bit of skewed ideas about relationships, on how chivalry is dead, people are unfaithful etc. That unfortunately drives many people away from actually settling down. If there was one thing I would give advice on, that is never to give up on finding true love. Even going through the hardest times of a relationship are worth it, as long as you get to spend your days with your ONE. Love is scary, but once you find true love, there is no other feeling like it.

The biggest thing to understand is there is no guide on how to find your true love. Love is different, it is crazy and it is absolutely amazing. Until you have experienced it, you haven’t seen anything yet!

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Dustin Meyer

Free thinking, somewhat radical, and very passionate. Take a trip through the mind of the creator and dreamer behind The Evolutionary Mind.


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