On Love and Relationships (4 Min Read)

Love and relationships are topics that are very important. No matter who you are, love affects you in some way and so do your relationships. You may be in love with your soul mate or in love with life; but no matter what you will be affected by it in some way. We will talk about how it does indeed affect us as humans, and touch on some things why it is so important for us to have.

Love is by far the strongest, most complex emotion that we experience. By no means do we understand it completely, but we will always try to. There is no way to explain it, you have to go by feelings and instincts rather than rationally. Rationally there is no way to figure it out, we just have to trust ourselves, and each other in that case. When you are in love with someone, there is no true way to be able to tell, other than the look in their eyes. You give your all, everything you have to offer, and trust that your emotions will be safe in their hands.




Emotionally, it takes a huge toll on you. Sometimes you just have to sit back and soak it all in. But on the same lines, when you are in love, you are very fragile. Emotions are something that should guide most people, because that’s what makes us humans. Without emotions, we rely only on instincts to get us through the days. Some things our mind just cannot comprehend entirely, love is one of those things. When you are in love with someone, nothing else matters, nothing at all, you only care about seeing them smile and make sure that they are okay.

Learning to be individuals while you are in love is something very difficult. Personally, I put the one I love before me each and every time. She means more to me than anything else possibly could. That is the hard part, and that one part which takes a toll on us mentally. I would not do anything to change putting her first, but I have to learn to be me as well as be hers. When you are in a relationship with that person, you have to understand everything about them, that comes in time but it is very necessary.

Patience is the key, and not easy to come by. In relationships you have to be patient for sure, without it everything else will be thrown off. I personally try to be as patient as I can, it is hard, but the hard things are the most rewarding. Nothing will top being able to spend the rest of your life with the person you love more than anything. Also, you have to have a sense of understanding. Especially where you are your loved one are going through rough times, you have to understand, and be open to understand where they are coming from. No matter what stage of that relationship, you have to understand your partner.

There will be rough times. No matter how perfect you might think a relationship is, there will always be tough times. You have to stick through them, because if you give up, you aren’t worthy. The tough times are what define a relationship, and your love for someone. How you deal with those tough times and work together to succeed, is what will shape your future. It is not the end of the story, but a beginning to a new chapter of life, and your love.

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Dustin Meyer

Free thinking, somewhat radical, and very passionate. Take a trip through the mind of the creator and dreamer behind The Evolutionary Mind.

5 Comments

  1. “Personally, I put the one I love before me each and every time. She means more to me than anything else possibly could.” – I love this more anything. However reading this post, specially at the end when you mentioned “No matter how perfect you might think a relationship is, there will always be tough times. You have to stick through them, because if you give up, you aren’t worthy.” I can’t wrap my head around the fact you can spend about 5+ years with someone and when it gets bad you still have to stick around. That’s basically torturing yourself (emotionally, and sometimes verbally) by trying to make something that once great come back. I don’t know about you but I can’t tolerate pain, in any form but i’d take physical pain over emotional pain any day. Any advice on how to deal with broken relationships that are falling apart?

    Great post by the way

    Raihana x

    • Thank you for the comment as always, definitely love getting feedback on the articles.

      Pain unfortunately is something that often happens when a relationship is failing. It actually happened to me very recently. The only advice I can truly give is do the things that make you happy. If you forget who you are (which happens a lot in relationships) you will be much worse off. I never would put yourself through something that is emotionally taxing (from personal recent experience). It does suck having been in a relationship that is tenured, but in the end you have yourself to look after. Like I did say, I put those I love before me without hesitation, but now especially I focus on making sure I am feeding my own happiness as well.

      I hope that kind of gave you something to think about!

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